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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9807271.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %FEW WINNERS MANY LOSERS CONSTANT CONFLICT VIOLENCE+980727 %ARROGANT SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS JUDGEMENT CONDEMNATION+980727 %ALIENATION EXCOMMUNICATION REJECTION EXCLUSION SIN 980727 History is full of account of occasions when many people have persisted in dealing with each other in ways which lead to few winners and many losers on both sides of many battles. Instead of finding ways to work together cooperatively --- people work tirelessly to find grounds for criticizing, judging and excluding each other. They function in terms of an economy of scarcity of: love, acceptance, affection, understanding, mutuality, inclusion, affirmation, cooperation, etc. Instead of finding in each other's complementary affirmations the seeds for synthesis and integration --- people find in each other's complementary affirmations seeds of distrust, non-conformity, dis-loyalty, judgementalism, condemnation and disintegration. It is a wonder that people have not often recognized the diseases which make them be ill-at-ease with each other and prone to justify themselves in their own eyes. We diseases are to be found in efforts to justify ourselves in the eyes of those whom we do not know, trust or respect. It is a wonder that we have not recognized the conflicting ideals, values and principles which we have internalized --- and which drive us to be eternally in conflict with each other in blinding self-righteous ways. When everybody is losing and there are pathetically few winners --- it is a wonder that we the losers cannot figure out how to band together in cooperative efforts to be winners together --- in ways which will put to shame the traditional pseudo-winners of the traditional ways of striving to be better, saved, exclusive --- as the "chosen" few. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================