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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9805102.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %PROJECTION EXPERIENCES COSMOS EXTERNAL REALITY+980510 %NORMATIVE STANDARDS EXPECTATIONS LAW REQUIREMENT 980510 Often we are prone to internalize in some way our own experiences and expectations --- and then project them outward upon the cosmos --- in the form of normative standards which we expect others and ourselves to abide by and/or affirm as valid. The process is not entirely logical/reasonable --- and not clearly articulated in overt language. In part we want our own experiences to be cosmically validated. We ask others to validate our own experiences through conformity to or confession of our perceptions of the validity of our projections upon the cosmos. It would be more honest, healthy and helpful to directly describe our own experiences and expectations; to own them as our own, and as having reality as our own. Such descriptions would be less coercive, violent and dishonest --- than are our projections upon the cosmos, and our demands that people conform to our projections upon the cosmos. Were we to work to provide each other with healthy contexts within which we and others would be and feel secure in being safely vulnerable in open and honest dialogue---we would enjoy that which we try to manipulate. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================