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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %KIND ALIENATIVE LOVER RECONCILE SELF OTHER EVIL 980120 There are a number of different types of ALIENATIVE LOVERS: 1. People who seek out and unilaterally rescue people who are poor and vulnerable. 2. People who seek to control the lives and relationships of other people whom they look down upon. 3. People who focus so exclusively upon ideals and abstractions---that they are out of touch with real people's lives and experiences. 4. People who focus so exclusively upon prescriptions and proscriptions that they cannot focus upon honest descriptions of the consequences of their exclusive focus upon prescriptions and proscriptions. Alienative lovers engage in manipulative pretense; to the exclusion of participation of open and honest dialogue. Their "love" is pretentious, arrogant and insensitive to the alienation which they engender. Tragically often they succeed in eliciting respect and support from people who cannot recognize that their "love" is not authentic. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================