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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9701051.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %BEING AVAILABLE PRESENT BUDGET TIME ENERGY RESCUE+970105 %CODEPENDENT ADDICTIVE ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS LOVE+970105 %REALISTIC INTIMACY SEXUALITY COMMITMENT COVENANT 970105 Humans are finite creatures who are unable to do all that they imagine. Human imagination is more expansive than humans' ability to fulfill all that is imagined. Much has seemed to be impossible, but is then achieved through highly focused human effort---at the expense of not achieving much else which might have been achieved were it not for the highly focused effort. A few apparently impossible achievements may be within reach for each person; but there is always a limit to how many very difficult achievements a human can cram into one finite lifetime of less than 200 years. Accomplishing a few difficult achievements is no proof that an infinity of such difficult achievements is possible for any one human. Humans can be intimate friends and lovers with only a finite number of other persons. There is only a limited amount of time, energy and attention. People who pretend otherwise are not honest persons of integrity and they often act in ways which undermine other people's personal and communal integrity. Pretending to be able to do what cannot be done is not a great achievement. The question, of course, is to discern what each person is able to do and to know how to make use of such discernment. Further, it is not usually helpful for us to try to discern what other people are able to do and to constrain them to try to do only what has been "discerned" they are able to do. Personal descriptions are more likely to be helpful than are prescriptions and proscriptions which are not grounded in personal experience. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================