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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %NEGOTIATE TERMS PERSONAL RELATION INTIMACY FRIEND+960326 %TACIT OVERT DEVELOPMENT REVEAL ATTITUDES BELIEFS+960326 %DESIRES INTENTIONS GOALS IDEALS VALUES TERMS WILL+960326 %CHANGE GROWTH ATTRACT COURTSHIP FALLING LOVE WANT+960326 %OUTLOOK PERSPECTIVE INVOLVE INTIMATE INTEGRITY GOD+960326 %YOUNG ADOLESCENT SEXUAL MARRIAGE OPEN HONESTY EVIL 960326 Personal relationships develop through negotiations (tacit or overt) of the terms for the development of the relationships. People's behaviors and dialogue reveal attitudes, beliefs, desires, intentions, goals, ideals, values and much more---in terms of which they may or may not be willing to become more involved in friendships and/or intimate relationships. Part of the negotiation process is the process of changing one's own attitudes, beliefs, desires, intentions, goals, ideals, values and outlooks--- in order to attract an attractive other person into intimacy. If one is unwilling to change---one is not likely to become involved in any intimate relationship. If one is too willing to change in ways which lack personal integrity---one is likely to become involved in destructive "intimate" relationships. Young people need to be taught and to learn how to enter into the negotiations that are essential to the development of healthy personal relationships which are the foundation of personal and communal integrity. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================