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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9409141.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %ELEMENTARY PARTICLE HEALTHY PERSONAL RELATION LOVE+940914 %OBJECT SUBJECT REFLEXIVE INTIMACY SEX HONESTY TRUE 940914 The physicists' model of truly elementary particles interacting with each other at a distance, because of the unchanging essential properties of the elementary particles---is not a good model in terms of which to understand healthy intimate personal relationships. In interactions between truly elementary particles the particles are not changed by their interactions. It is true that in some collisions composite particles are destroyed and thereby shown not to be truly elementary particles. When atoms collide and split into electrons, protons, neutrons, mesons, and other more elementary particles---it is shown that atoms are not truly elementary particles. When protons and neutrons collide and generate other particles it is shown that protons and neutrons are not ultimately elementary and unchanging; but made up of quarks. Perhaps not even quarks are truly elementary particles. They may be composed of vibrating strings and loops! In healthy human intimacy the participants are changed by their relationships. They do not exist in any complete sense apart from their relationship; but it is not a healthy relationship if they cannot exist as whole persons without embarrassment in the absence of each other. It is not a healthy intimate relationship if the participants cling to each other, or clutch at each other. Healthy people do not try to own or manipulate each other; yet they are who they are---by virtue of their relationships; and true participants do not try to declare their independence from their relationships. Healthy human intimacy cannot be truly understood in terms of unchanging properties of elementary participants; for in healthy intimacy human participants are growing and changing in ways which are beyond their control---and are guided by the processes of their relationships. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================