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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9403241.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %MANIPULATE CONTROL COERCE ADDICTIVE VIOLENCE 940324 When we are confronted with exclusivity, alienation, violent manipulations, addictive control and all their related kinds of behaviors---we need to look for the ideals, values, assumptions, convictions and fears which motivate and guide the people who are the leading actors in such dysfunctional relationships. Such leading dysfunctional actors are rarely openly committed to promoting and facilitating: balance, honesty, trust, risk- taking, giving security as the freedom to be safely vulnerable, personal integrity and/or communal integrity. When we are confronted with dysfunctional relationships we need to look for the roots of whatever forms of imbalance are motivating and guiding the victims of the dysfunctional relationships. The victims are usually mutually responsible for the continuation of the dysfunctional relationships. The perpetuators of the dysfunctional relationships are often driven by fears, ideals and values which perpetuate relationships of exclusivity, alienations, manipulations, and violence--- which victimize all the participants in the dysfunctional relationships. It is helpful to articulate as such the fears, ideals and values which perpetuate the relationships. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================