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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9401141.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %INDEPENDENCE COLLUSIVE THREAT REJECTION 940114 True independence does not involve total withdrawal or detachment from people around us; but rather it involves detachment from any threats which people around us make overtly or covertly to reject us for failures to conform to their manipulative expectations, demands, requirements and efforts to generate shame/guilt in us. True independence does not involve ignorance of nor the ignoring of threats of personal rejection; but rather the transcendence of threats of rejection so that we are not imprisoned, impaired, debilitated, paralyzed, or fearful of them. True independence does not mean a lack of dependence upon people around us; but rather interdependence with them only to the extent that such interdependence is healthy, balanced, open, honest, cooperative, and integrative. True independence does not mean the avoidance of cooperation with people around us; but rather making sure that we do not become the victims of addictive people's efforts to enlist and enslave us as their codependent supporters in dishonest, unbalanced and disintegrative games of mutual self deception. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================