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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9310162.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %ACKNOWLEDGE AFFIRM PLEASURE SATISFY MEANING JOY 931016 People who are always trying to be in control or trying to appear to be in control find it impossible to affirm and/or acknowledge true pleasure, satisfaction, meaning and joy---because such realities are not the fruits of, nor the means to, being in control. True pleasure, satisfaction, meaning and joy tend to undermine the collusive games of mutual self deception of collusive addicts and their supportive codependents. Attempts are made to make pleasure, satisfaction, meaning and joy be servants of the collusive paradigm; used as rewards and withheld until conformity is achieved. Trying to use them as tools of control generates frustration, resentment, anger and desires for revenge which make being in control even less possible than it was in the absence of trying coercion. Then all that can be achieved is the appearance of being in control through the systematic addictive use of collusive games of mutual self deception. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================