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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9307232.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %RESPOND INABILITY CONTROL SEX DESIRES FANTASIES+930723 %THOUGHTS IMAGES FEEL EMOTIONS BEHAVIORS INTIMATE 930723 How shall we respond to our inability to have full control of our sexual desires, fantasies, thoughts, feelings, and behaviors? Shall our responses center around judgments, guilt, shame, resignation, legalisms, trying harder, denial, pretense, rejections, excommunications, alienation, estrangement, and misunderstandings? Shall our responses center around open and honest dialogue, descriptions, seeking personal and communal integrity, personal acceptance, forgiveness, charity, prayer, humility, and gentleness? Shall we acknowledge distinctions between thinking about the possibility of engaging in some behavior on the one hand, and on the other hand actually engaging in that behavior; or shall we treat the two as equivalent? Shall we be so repressive as to inhibit openness, honesty, creativity, and true intimacy? Shall we strive for conformal perfection, or for an honest community in which personal and communal integrity are valued and honored more than is conformity? How we respond to our inability to be in control will lead to personal and communal integrity, or to personal and communal disintegration. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================