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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9303273.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %CONTROL THOUGHT FEELING RESPONSE PATTERN EXPRESS 930327 We sometimes try to control other people's thoughts, feelings and response patterns. About all we can do is get some other people to deceive us by hiding their true thoughts, feeling and responses to our attempts to control them. That is not much of an accomplishment! How people respond to us as persons is not within the possibility of control. Neither we nor they are objects which can be controlled. We respond to people independently of their plans for us. Other people respond to us independently of our plans for them. Only fools try to control how other people respond to them. Only collusive fools play addictive and codependent games of mutual self deception in which they think that they are controlling other people's thoughts, feelings and personal responses. About the only thing they are successful in is generating alienation between themselves and others; so that they are misinformed, uninformed and and misunderstood. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================