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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9212254.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %PERFECT SEXUAL CONFORMITY EXCEPTION TABOO RULE 921225 Is personal acceptability well defined in terms of conformity to rules, regulations, disciplines, expectations, and taboos governing all sexual relationships in public and private? Are people who conform to such definitions well, healthy, free of dis- ease, and people of integrity? In proportion to how well they conform? Only if they know when and where, within what contexts, to let go with personal and communal integrity; and be free of preoccupation with perfect conformity? Is perfect conformity in all contexts, times, and places better than is decent respect for people's unique characteristics. Is it healthy to seek to conform perfectly to communal expectations and prescriptions at all times as regards sexual relationships? Is it healthy for us to ask or expect others to always conform to our expectations and prescriptions regarding their sexual being and relationships? What would be the nature of perfect sexual conformity: always behaving in keeping with communal expectations, in private as well as in public? Can a community which expects perfect sexual conformity show respect and admiration for lovers who seek to discover new and varied ways of giving and receiving sexual pleasure apart from conformal rules, expectations, requirements and taboos? Can such a community promote openness, honesty, and personal integrity, while withholding respect and admiration from lovers who seek to discover new and varied ways of giving and receiving sexual pleasure apart from conformal rules, expectations, requirements and taboos? Can we be people and communities of integrity without openly and honestly discussing the above kinds of questions; or should some of the questions be taboo and punishable by rejection, excommunication, expulsion or other forms of separation from the community? See the previous essay. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================