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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9212223.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %PREREQUISITE TRUE INTIMACY JACK JILL DESIRE 921222 Jack and Jill are seeking true intimacy, but they are not familiar with the prerequisites to true intimacy: 1. Having been offered and been willing to accept the gift of security as the freedom to be safely vulnerable. 2. Being free to be true to themselves and to each other by being free of addictions, collusions and codependencies. 3. Having reasonably equal amounts and kinds of power, and being willing to share their powers in balanced ways. 4. Being as interested in each other as persons who are inherently of interest as unique individuals, as they are in themselves and their own desires, goals, fears, etc. 5. Having healthy self esteem and self confidence balanced with authentic humility. 6. Having healthy role models who have demonstrated healthy human relationships and have elicited admiration, respect, and emulation. 7. Being aware of what is humanly possible, and what is humanly impossible; and not attempting or pretending to do what is humanly impossible. 8. Seeking to build a relationship as a member of a partnership of equals, not as an executive who is in control. 9. Being reliable and trustworthy in successively more and more challenging situations. 10. Being willing to take reasonable risks, learn together from mistakes, and work sacrificially for both personal and communal integrity. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================