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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9209182.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %SHOULD NOT TRAP LANGUAGE WORD DESCRIBE STATEMENT 920918 Some people get trapped in the language of "should", both with regard to "should" and "should-not". All too often statements made with the word "should" are coercive and even violent statements which show a manipulative disregard for the nature of the integrity of unique individual persons who are seeking in their own unique ways to contribute to communal integrity in balanced ways. When such trapped people hear a descriptive statement about the consequences of a particular attitude, perception, belief, conviction, desire, fear, action, etc.; they automatically regard the statement as "code" for a substitute statement which involves the coercive use of the word "should" in either a negative or a positive way. They cannot distinguish between the two kinds of statements and regard them as being equivalent; unable to see the disintegrative consequences of the coercive "should" statements, or the honest truth of the accurate descriptive statements. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================