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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9106053.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %PRETEND BEING SUPERIOR HUMILITY DISHONEST COLLUDE 910605 It is disintegrative to pretend to be a being who is superior to other people; when in fact one lacks self esteem and self confidence. People who have healthy self-esteem and healthy self-confidence do not pretend to be beings who are superior to other people. Such people are humble. Those people who pretend to be beings who are superior to other people are themselves dishonest people. It is disintegrative to pretend to be a being who is superior to other people because such pretense is: 1. Dishonest because of low self esteem being present. 2. Likely to undermine other people's confidence and trust in us. 3. Likely to put other people on the defensive. 4. Bound to lead to alienation in personal relationships, undermining wise decision-making and cooperation through dishonesty. The tools which are used in trying to maintain the pretense of being a being who is superior to other people need to be recognized as such; e.g.: 1. Moral codes of conduct tailored to favor the life styles and abilities of the pretentiously superior beings. 2. Legal systems administered by lawyers and legislative technocrats who profit by the sophistication and complexity of the legal system which they create, administer, adjudicate and serve within. 3. Religious rituals which affirm that the tools which point to the superiority of the pretentious people are God-given and of divine origin. 4. Patterns of rejection, excommunication, banishment, ostracism, threats and neglect which prompt others to become participants in the dishonest pretense of the "superior" people. 5. Communally supported, culturally approved and organizationally systemic patterns of addictive and codependent behavior by which collusive games of mutual self deception are taught to each succeeding generation. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================