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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9006192.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %MASOCHISTIC SUFFER SERVANT LOW SELF ESTEEM REJECT 900619 Some people of low self esteem are so unsure of their own worth that they think when they are not suffering, that they are not doing their duty as suffering servants; and are no good. Such people seek out situations in which doing their duty will lead to suffering which will help then to know that they are worthy of acceptance. Pleasure is unacceptable, and people who let themselves enjoy pleasure are regarded as not worthy of personal acceptance. Suffering is to them the badge of acceptability and admiration. They are suffering codependents who encourage their beneficiary victims to continue to be dependent people who cannot take healthy care of themselves. Low self esteem entails self rejection which is related to the rejection of self by others; either actively, or else passively through neglect by those who might have reasonably been expected to show positive attention and give positive affirmation. Such active/passive rejection in childhood can have profound consequences to the emotional life of the adult who is the emotional offspring of the child. The adult years may be dominated by compulsively seeking to relive/resolve the unresolved dilemmas of the child who was not properly accepted and affirmed as a whole person. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================