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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9002093.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %VICTIM ADDICT PERSONALITY PERCEPTION DEPENDENT 900209 Some people fall into the trap of perceiving themselves as always being the victim of circumstances which they see as being beyond their own control or influence. They cope by presenting themselves to others as victim. They do not try to do things which only they can do well for themselves; they ask others to do for them those things which by nature must be done by a person for them self. When codependent other persons attempt to service such victim personalities, they and those that they seek to rescue fall together into the trap of addictive/codependent relationships. The true victim is a victim of circumstances beyond their control. False victims are dishonest about what they might be doing for themselves. Dishonesty rules their lives. They use dishonesty as a technique by which to manipulate their perception of themselves, and to manipulate other people into perceiving and serving them as victim. Codependents cooperate in such false service and together they and those they try to rescue, imprison each other in unhealthy relationships. They cannot recover their health in the absence of daily rededications to participate honestly in honest personal relationships, and to detach themselves from active participation in dishonest personal relationships. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================