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This is http://www.essayz.com/a8905041.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %ROOT PERSONAL COMMUNAL DISINTEGRATION LACK ACCEPT 890504 Personal and communal disintegration are rooted in regarding estrangement as an acceptable technique of personal manipulation. The acceptance of the use of deprivation of communication as a technique of personal manipulation leads to the break down of the channels of communication which are essential to communal integrity. The experience of deprivation of integrative communications leads to the loss of self-esteem, and to addictive efforts to compensate for the loss by the use of manipulative techniques to achieve some confused affective goals. It is impossible to achieve reconciliation of affection through manipulative techniques; for genuine affection is a gift, not an achievement or payment. Distrust cannot be transcended through the use of techniques of personal manipulation, for such techniques are based upon continued estrangement between the manipulator and the victim of manipulation. The person who has been deprived of affective acceptance cannot effectively compensate for that lack through personal achievements. In fact, efforts to compensate through attempts to achieve affection are bound to lead to additional alienation, and so to personal and communal disintegration. Personal and communal integrity thus are rooted in unconditional communal gifts of affection to the young people of the community. In the absence of such unconditional gifts there is a tendency for the community and its members to disintegrate. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================