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This is http://www.essayz.com/a8904082.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %RESCUE CODEPENDENT GUILT SERENITY PEACE TRANQUIL 890408 The codependent does not know how to be comfortable with peace, tranquility and serenity. In fact, the codependent often feels guilty in moments of peace, tranquility and serenity. After all, there are many people who do not have such luxuries; and it is not right for the codependent to enjoy such luxuries when there are others who do not have them. In the face of such contrast the codependent is bound to feel guilty, and seek ways to deal with the guilt. The codependent's addict is always willing to help in dealing with such guilt, and can readily provide a crisis which will get rid of the guilt which the codependent does not know how to deal with. Thus does the addict endear himself/herself to the codependent in times of need. The codependent is trapped in codependent personal relationships because the codependent does not know how to make responsible use of peace, tranquility and serenity as occasions for recreation which can be the foundation for really resolving conflicts; rather than playing collusive games of mutual self deception within conflicts. The codependent needs to learn how NOT to feel guilty about peace, tranquility and serenity; they are the keys to creative living, not occasions for guilt. Honest service and love are impossible without peace, tranquility and serenity. The codependent needs to learn to pray for the integrity which is at the roots of peace, tranquility and serenity; and through which the challenges of addictive and codependent relationships can be met with equanimity in creative ways. Such integrity is not something about which one needs to feel guilty; nor is it something which one can keep as one's own. Integrity is not real integrity, unless it is known within sharing relationships which demonstrate peace, serenity and tranquility. The codependent need not pay for peace, tranquility and serenity through frantic efforts to be of service and balance the books of justification. The enjoyment of peace, tranquility and serenity is its own justification and leads to salvation from frantic works of self justification. It is no crime to work for and within peace, tranquility and serenity; and to enjoy them in good measure; for with them much human suffering can be alleviated even when technical efforts are impotent. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================