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This is http://www.essayz.com/a8903181.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %BEING RESPONSIBLE EMBARRASS PRETENSE COLLUSIVE 890318 An embarrassment has to do with the exposure of that which the embarrassed persons would prefer to keep hidden: ignorance, pretense, arrogance, deception, mis-leadings, weakness, vulnerability, etc. Often the embarrassed person regards another person as primarily responsible for the embarrassment. The embarrassed person often acts as if they had a right to keep hidden that which upon revelation has caused them to be embarrassed. To them the person who occasioned the revelation is the person responsible for the embarrassment. The responsibility for embarrassment lies heavily with the person(s) who has (have) maintained ignorance, pretense, arrogance, deception, mis-leadings, etc. Those who lack integrity seek to hide their lack of integrity, and bear responsibility for their efforts to be coherently deceptive. Those who enjoy integrity bear responsibility for exercising their freedom and power charitably as they confront others who are engaged in collusive games of mutual self deception. Such confrontations are bound to entail embarrassment. Ideally such embarrassment will occur only within contexts of security wherein vulnerability and security are mutually compatible. Embarrassment within the context of such love promotes growth, rather than defensiveness and intensification of efforts to conceal. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================