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This is http://www.essayz.com/a8901162.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %REALIZE CREATE REALITY ATTITUDES ADDICT LOVE 890116 We realize the nature of reality by the attitudes with which we approach our daily situations. We realize the nature of our reality both in the sense of becoming aware of it, and in the sense of making it real by how we approach and respond to it. Personal realities are not objective realities. Personal realities do not exist independent of the person who experiences and interprets them. We can not see, analyze and control personal realities as objective realities which are separate from our approach, experience and interpretation. Ultimately all realities are experienced personally. We realize what the nature of reality is through our personal experiences which are not objective experiences. The ultimate confirmation of the nature of reality is through our personal experiences and our interpretations of those experiences. Our interpretations of our personal experiences are highly dependent upon the attitudes with which we approach our experiences and in terms of which we interpret our experiences. We thus make real, realize, the ultimate nature of our reality through the attitudes with which we approach reality. Each kind of person realizes their own kind of ultimate reality: in addiction, codependence, love, fear, greed, anxiety, etc. Each person can find in reality confirmation of the attitudes with which reality is approached. Each person can confirm the reality which they expect to find---to a large extent, but not completely. We cannot control reality. We are not ultimately in control of the reality which we help to create. We only help to create it, we do not control it. Our role is significant, but not ultimate. Only the wise learn to recognize what they can, and what they can not change/ control. Some people seek to realize themselves through being in control of many things and realities which they cannot control. They approach reality with a set of attitudes which lead to their own disintegration. Some attitudes lead to disintegration, other attitudes lead to integration. Manipulative attitudes tend to lead towards disintegration. Attitudes which enable, let us to let go of other people and let them honestly be themselves with integrity, are attitudes which tend to lead us towards integration. Such detachment is not indifference, or a lack of caring. It is a profound expression of Love. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================