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This is http://www.essayz.com/a8812061.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %FIXATED COMPULSIVE RESPONSIBILITY PARENT CHILD 881206 Alcoholics and their codependents become fixated upon each other as the source of their problems, and also the source of their solutions; their fixes. A fix is a compensation for a problem which is not being solved. A fixation is the compulsive focusing of attention upon a fix which is not solving the problem for which it is a compensation. Codependents seek to provide fixes for addicts who do not take care of themselves. Codependents have a confused sense of how to be responsible. Codependents focus upon taking care of others, rather than upon being responsive to others. They do not focus upon the responsive aspect of responsibility. Codependents believe it is their responsibility to take care of people who do not take care of themselves. There are countless dishonest addicts seeking to be dependent upon good codependents who are willing to take care of people who refuse to take care of themselves. Codependents encourage addicts to be dependent by failing to take care of themselves. In turn addicts encourage codependents to be satisfied with their taking excessive care of people who will not take care of themselves. Together they become fixated upon each other as fixes for their own character defects, about which they will not be honest, and regarding which they will not take corrective steps. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================