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This is http://www.essayz.com/a8801191.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %SELF PUNISH MASOCHIST ADDICT CODEPEND FALL LEARN 880119 Some people through their own decisions and actions put themselves in situations by which they punish themselves. They do not seem to learn from their mistakes how to avoid putting themselves into self punishing situations. They behave as masochists in repeatedly inflicting upon themselves trials and tribulations. Usually such people are addicted to some thing or fix: alcohol, drugs, work, sex technology, power, food, codependents,etc. Their masochistic behavior is part of their addictive behavior, and vice versa. Addicts challenge their codependence to rescue them from the situations into which they put themselves by their masochistic decisions and actions. The greater the rescue the more the addicts' needs for codependent is, and the greater the possibility of a stupendous rescue. Each successful rescue of a masochistic addict teaches the addict that the process of making self punishing decisions is a rewarding process. The cycle of such decisions and rewards needs to be broken for addicts and their codependents to recover their health, peace, and tranquility. The dynamics of the cycle need to be recognized, discussed and transcended. This will require greater openness and honesty than is characteristic of the typical addictive society. The recovery of health for addicts and their codependents will require the recovery of health for addicts and their codependents will require the recovery of the whole addictive society of which they are contributing members. Each member of such a society contributes in her and his own way to the perpetuation of the pattern of behaviors which maintains addicts in their masochistic patterns of behavior. Each member needs to recognize the ways in which they are contributing to the dynamic process of disintegration, and each needs to learn how to contribute to a recovery process of personal and communal integration. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================