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This is http://www.essayz.com/a8706122.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %MUTUAL CO-DEPENDENCY COMPENSATION 870612 Jack and Jill need each other to compensate for each other's weaknesses. Each can not make it without the other. Each uses the other's dependency as a lever for manipulating the other in violent ways, paying for that advantage in the acceptance of the reciprocal violent manipulation based upon other's own needs and dependency. Each resents the other's violent manipulation and attempts to be in control. Each feels the need to be in control to compensate for the victimization which they accept. Neither knows how to transcend such mutual efforts to be in control through violent manipulations, and each feels trapped in their pattern of mutual co-dependency compensation. They are not familiar with role models of healthy interdependence and mutual respect and with the freedom to be safely vulnerable. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================