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This is http://www.essayz.com/a8701201.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %RESPONSIBILITY FOR JACK'S EMBARRASSMENT 870120 When Jack is embarrassed who is to be held responsible? Embarrassment occurs when a person's hidden unresolved conflicts are exposed to public view. Such exposure may be due to the person's own behavior, or due to the behavior of another person. Who is held responsible depends more upon who has power, than upon who has hidden unresolved conflicts. Jack may be embarrassed by Jill's mature behavior which gives evidence of her having resolved conflicts which lurk in Jack's subconscious. Jack through superior power may hold Jill responsible for Jack's embarrassment; and such behavior on the part of Jack generates further repression of consciousness and further future embarrassment to others. Jill is taught not to behave in mature ways which expose other people's immaturity. The cycle of embarrassment is perpetuated by respecting the power of embarrassed people to hold other people responsible for the embarrassment of those who exercise power. It would promote personal and communal integrity more effectively to help people understand who owns the problem of embarrassment; i.e., the persons who are embarrassed: it is they who harbor the unresolved conflicts. Embarrassment is cured by resolving conflicts harbored in the embarrassed people, not by punishment for the behaviors of others who triggered the exposure of the hidden unresolved conflicts. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================