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This-essay is a8510121.htm which is available at the web-site www.essayz.com. See more notes at the bottom. Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay By-Months By-Years By-Words Webs of Like-&-Un-Like ESSAYS <==> Like-&-UN-Like This-One ========================================================== %COLLUSION TRANSCENDING AFFIRMATIONS 851012 By and large collusions maintain themselves by making apparently respectable affirmations. Attempts to transcend collusions by denials of their apparently respectable affirmations will tend to heighten defensive postures and movement to extremes in making collusive affirmations by which the collusions maintain their games of mutual self deception. The deceptions are achieved by the implicit messages in the affirmations. Denials of the collusive affirmations are unlikely to be successful in focusing upon the implicit messages which entail the deceptions without foolishly including a denial of those aspects of the affirmations which have some merit. The way to lay the foundations for the transcendence of collusive affirmations involves not denials, but genuinely more honest and open affirmations which will be recognized as more coherent and integrative in nature. The collusion can be transcended best by agreeing upon transcendent ideals in terms of which the collusion's affirmations merit respect, but in terms of which ultimately the deceptions of the collusion will be recognized as not meriting respect. The threat of judgment must not be immediate and direct without first laying the foundations for acceptance in terms of more transcendent ideals. Collusions are disintegrative because they make affirmations in terms of which people are judged to be unacceptable and worthy of excommunication. Participants in collusions regard ideals as bases for excommunication, rather than as guides to integrative behavior which always strives for reconciliation and so personal and communal integrity. Insecure participants in collusions need a vision of the possibility of unconditional acceptance as human being before being threatened with the judgment which Love passes upon the disintegrative implications of the game of mutual self deception which is central to their collusion. Participants in a collusion can escape from their collusion only by becoming participants in a revolution of ideals, moving from judgmental disintegrative ideals to reconciling integrative ideals as the way to move from despair to hope, from disintegration to community. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in www.essayz.com Search for Integrity and Honesty (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================
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