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This-essay is a8104033.htm which is available at the web-site www.essayz.com. See more notes at the bottom. Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay By-Months By-Years By-Words Webs of Like-&-Un-Like ESSAYS <==> Like-&-UN-Like This-One ========================================================== %VALUES OF INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS-2 810403 People will often choose (for themselves/others) goals which serve the purpose of inhibiting the development of intimate relationships which might challenge comforting traditions, taboos, collusions,etc. Also, some people may avoid intimate relationships due to a fear that within intimate relationships they might be even more vulnerable to the imposition upon them of such goals. These two considerations are not logically consistent with each other, and together constitute a sort of paradox. Avoid "B" by a dedication to "A". Fear "A" being imposed upon you within "B". Here "B"=intimate relationships. "A"=pre-chosen goals. Out of fear that improper goals may be imposed upon you within intimate relationships, keep out of intimate relationships. One way to keep out of intimate relationships is to dedicate yourself to impersonal (improper?) goals which inhibit the development of intimate relationships. Both considerations are in agreement with the inhibition of intimate relationships, and so seem to support each other. If two reasons are in agreement that it is dangerous to be involved in intimate relationships, they must add up to a sound conclusion. Yet, the logic is faulty because one of the premises is that one should not get involved in intimate relationships because within them you might become dedicated to improper (impersonal?) goals. Note that the outcome of the perverted logic is the dedication to improper (impersonal?) goals, giving the lie to the integrity of the reasoning which says that you should not get involved in intimate relationships because within them you might become dedicated to improper goals. Thus, in the end, there is only one reason for not getting involved in intimate relationships, the reason being that they get in the way of the achievement of pre-selected goals. The fear that intimate relationships might result in the imposition of inappropriate goals---is a means to protect the subterfuge by which inappropriate goals are imposed by the use of the perverse logic. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in www.essayz.com Search for Integrity and Honesty (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================
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