The Health-and-Integrity of Sustainable: families, neighborhoods, communities, cities, states, nations and overall Global-Civilizations - - -

depend upon the degree to which people who are participants in interactions and social-reflexive-relationships - - - 

actually BOND in knowing-each-other in sustainable patterns of diverse kinds of:

Open-and-Honest-Dialogues;

Listening-closely-to-each-other's-basic-healthy-needs-and-desires;

Knowing empathetically and sympathetically each other's basic

healthy-needs-and-desires; in social relaxed conversations;

and in sharing interests, concerns, anxieties and fears.


How can such people reliably recognize and identify closely with other new people - - -

with whom it is clearly SAFE to be INTIMATE, TRUST and BOND in sustainable LONG-TERM - - -

REFLEXIVE-PERSONAL-RELATIONSHIPS that demonstrate healthy forms of personal-sustainable-life-styles - - -

that demonstrate sustainable: ideals, values, principles, virtues and ground-for-hope in the Well-Integrated 

Ways-of-LOVE within SHALOM'S SANCTUARIES?            We need to take note of the ways in which people behave:


Pretentiously     Secretively     Defensively   Guardedly    Detached     Out-of-Touch            Overly-Optimistically    Negatively    Cynically    Domineeringly

Like-Bullies     Like-Mobsters    Greedily      Concentrating-Powers      Concentrating-Wealth    Militaristically         Seductively   Honestly     Graciously

In the light of how-people-behave - - - how can we discern with whom it is safe for us to be intimate;  and to BOND-WITH-THEM  in long-term intimate-relationships?



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THINK!

Be-Together within  Shalom's Sanctuaries   Discerning through   Open-and-Honest-Dialogues   - - -   What-IS   and What-is-NOT    ESSENTIAL-TO-CIVILITY-AND-TRUE-CIVILIZATIONS!

IN   SUSTAINABLE WAYS   THAT WILL LAST INTO   THE FORESEEABLE-FUTURE!