We can be mutually-together in-shalom's-sanctuaries - - - enjoying demonstrations/affirmations of Shared Integrities-and-Integrations-Processes - - - Only to the Extent that we are Together-in-Agreeing-Upon the most basic/essential coherent- principles regarding how we can Protect-Each-Other's Integrities-and-Integration-Processes - - - - - In Gracious-Ways that are Over-All In-The-Long-Term: Balanced Mutually-Agreed-Upon Kind Empathetic Sympathetic Sensitive Generous Hospitable Reciprocal Transparent Healing Reconciling Honorable Admirable Authentic Honest Coherent Accurate Humble Modesty Sustainable Responsive Thoughtful Informed Respected Accepted Honored Reciprocally-and-Tolerantly TRULY-IN-LOVE's Shalom For the above reasons we need to mitigate OUR: Alienations Arrogance Pretentions Violence Coercions Tortures Punishments Revenge Attacks Negations Polarizations Dichotomies Anger Isolations Prisons Genocides H-Bombs Excommunications Shunnings Banishments Exclusivity Conflicts Wars Terrorism Rejections Egocentricity Exclusivity Rejections Egocentricity Disagreements Contentions Greed Hoarding Excesses Coveting Concentrations Mansions Luxuries Battles Contests Oppositions Imbalances Fears Anxieties Dis-Ease Sicknesses Poverty Slums Prejudices Biases Invulnerability Superiority Pretentions Absurdities Collusions Deceptions Ignorance Confusion Forgetfulness Segregations Superiority Invulnerability Defenses How else can we enjoy the Essential-Changes? Be Graciously Together in Shalom!