Two "different-people" who are "strangers" to each-other may find each-other  to be TOTALLY-INCOMPREHENSIBLE  - - - if they are Playing-to-WIN Collusive-Games of
Mutual-Self-Deception - - - regarding the IMPOSSIILITY of   being-diffrerent   with-integrity   - - -   within the as-yet not-understood  Gracious-Ways-of-Shaslom.
 
There will   most-likely   be   Alieantive-Conflicts   within the the relationships of such "strangers" - - -  and they will  most-likely  have no-clue about how to deal
with their  TOTALLY-INCOMPREHENSIBE   Alienative-Conflicts - - - because first they must Let-Go of their  Tragic-Winnings  from  Cherished-Games of Mutual-Self-Deception
- - - that have been regarded as: Sacrid, Holy, Of-Ultimate-Concern, God-Given, Grounds-for-Hope and   Always-Worthy-of-Reverence.

Such "Different-People"  need to work-cooperatively  in Coordinated-Colaborative-Honest-Ways-of-Love  to identify and describe just how they are different in regards to:

 1. Deciding WHOM-they-can-TRUST     - - - and  WHY, on what grounds.

 2. Deciding WHOM-they-can-NOT-TRUST - - - and  WHY, on what grounds.

 3. How they differ in  AFFIRMING  very important    ASSUMPTIONS - - - and WHY, on what grounds.
  
 4. How they differ in  AFFIRMING  very important    ATTITUDES   - - - and WHY, on what grounds.
  
 5. How they differ in  AFFIRMING  very important    BELIEFS     - - - and WHY, on what grounds.

 6. How they differ in  AFFIRMING  very important    VALUES      - - - and WHY, on what grounds.

 7. How they differ in  AFFIRMING  very important    IDEALS      - - - and WHY, on what grounds.

 8. How they differ in  AFFIRMING  very important    HOPES       - - - and WHY, on what grounds.

 9. How they differ in  AFFIRMING  very important    CONFLICTS   - - - and WHY, on what grounds.

10. How they differ in  AFFIRMING  very important    PRIORITIES  - - - and WHY, on what grounds.


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                       The grounds for AFFIRMATIONS may be PURELY: Emotional, Rational, Objective, Mathematical, Theological, Fearful, Gang-Related, Tribe-Related, etc.


                       AFFIRMATIONS are often made most-powerfully by behaviors which are NOT at all: obvious, overt, verbal, explicit, coherent, public or honest.


                       AFFIRMATIONS are often made by   WINNING   particular    Colusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception, and so being   Out-of-Touch   with reality!

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  Be Graciously-Together  in Shalom's-Sanctuaries!                    

Be Graciously-Engaged in  Open-and-Honest-Dialogues!