To Become-Able to Graciously-Mitigate Our-Own Destructive Alienative-Conflicts we need to: 1. Let-Go of our Preoccupations with Our-Own: a. "Invulnerability" in Unilateral-Actions. b. Being "Superior-People" in Isolation. c. Being "Properly-Conformed-People" in Isolation. d. "Loyalty-and-Purity" in Winning our own Conflicts. e. "Being-in-Control" of our own Personal-Relationships and Isolated-Processes. 2. Graciously-and-Patiently: a. Be-Together in Building-New-Sanctuaries for Intimate-Relationships. b. Discern well -- Other's Most-Essential Healthy-Needs. c. Respond well to Other's Most-Essential-Healthy Needs. d. Engage in Open and Honest Dialogues about our Most-Essential-Healthy-Needs. e. Build Cooperative-Patterns of Mutual Trust-and-Understanding. f. Integrate Cooperative Behaviors-and-Actions. g. Offer Mutual Acceptance, Hospitality and Generous Help. h. Accept each others' Integrative-Initiatives. i. Accept diverse forms of Personal-Integrities. j. Accept diverse forms of Communal-Integrities. k. Focus upon Cooperative/Collaborative Affirmations and Behaviors l. Listen to others entrapped in Alienative-Conflicts-and-Needs. 3. Let-Go of Competition as the-key-to: a. Making our civilization sustainable. b. Dealing with the finitude of material resources in God's Astronomically Tiny Space-Ship-Earth. c. Dealing with strangers whom we do not understand and/or trust. d. Discovering our most trustworthy neighbors whom we have not yet met and/or engaged in dialogues. e. Creativity, Integrations and/or Personal-and-Communal Integrities. 4. Learn to recognize that to-the-extent-that a significant fraction of our community - - - believes the following myths; our community has WON a Tragically-Destructive Collusive-Game-of-Mutual-Self-Deception - - - such as: a. Long-Term Exponential-Growth in Material-Resource-Consumptive-Activities - - - are each a Good-Sign of a Healthy-Sustainable-Economy and of a Superior-Life-Style and Civilization. b. Whenever we run out of an Essential-Pure-Material-Resource within God's Astronomically-Tiny-and-Essentially- Isolated Space-Ship-Earth - - - we can go mine that resource on nearby-accessible: moons, asteroids, planets and solar systems. c. "Science and Technology" can resolve all temporary difficulties with resource-scarcity to meet our needs. d. We as the Superior-Economy-and-Civilization - - - can resolve-to-our-advantage - - - each Alienative-Conflict which we encounter in God's Space-Ship-Earth - - - ( in long-term sustainable ways ). THINK! Be Graciously-Together in Shalom's-Sanctuaries! Be Graciously-Engaged in Open-and-Honest-Dialogues!