We cannot "love our neighbors as our selves" - - - without transcending and letting go of the Life-Styles, ideals, values, principles, "virtues", grounds for hope, etc. of Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters. It is essential to the Sustainability of our Civilization - - - that we find/create gracious ways to Mitigate Our-Own Alienative-Ideological-Conflicts that are Most-Dear-and-Near to Our: Hearts, Traditions and Egocentric Core-Beliefs-and-Hopes. We cannot with integrity "love our neighbors as our selves" - - - without Letting-Go-Of our delusions that we can in Healthy-Ways: 1. Be Invulnerably-in-Control of our intimate-personal-relationships. 2. Avoid all of the risks of being involved in significant-and-meaningful Open-and-HOnest-Dialogues - - - about all of our most-basic-and-healthy: desires, hopes, needs, etc. - - - within any Long-Term-Sustainable Civilization within God's Astronomically-Tiny-and-Isolated Spherical Space-Ship-Earth - - - with its Thin-Crust of Essential-material-Resources floating on its RED-HOT-CORE in Plate-Tectonic-Motions that have endured far longer than mortals-have-endured. 3. Be Sustainable as Superior-Good-People among Clearly-Identifiable-and-Inferior other people within God's Spherical-Space-Ship-Earth as noted above. 4. Cling to: Dichotomous, Polarizing and Alienative - - - Superior: Ideals, Values, Principles, Grounds-for-Hope - - - and to their Supportive: Technologies, Technocrats and Concentrations of Power-and-Wealth - - - within Military- Industrial-Congressional-Complexes of our Superior-Profitable-Corporations. 5. Show Admiration and REVERENCE for our Created-Technocratic-Means for achieving our own: REDEMPTION, SALVATION, SECURITY and INVULNERABILITY - - - in ways that are superior to the ways of strangers whom we fear because we are alienated from them as strangers. Be Graciously-Together in Shalom's-Sanctuaries! Be Graciously-Engaged in Open-and-Honest-Dialogues!