People have often not known how best to pass on to others Hard-Learned-Cautions in regard to becoming personally involved in risky relationship with people whose' - - - Motives, Desires, Grounds-for-Hope, Intentions, Ideals, Values, Principles - - - are: Incoherent, Confused, Pretentious, Dominant, Egocentric, Exclusive, etc. Many people's systems of ethics, morality, commandments, injunctions, scriptures, rituals and proprieties have been confusing and alienative. It is rarely safe to trust "cautions" if they: 1. Originate with or have been "refined-by" Bullies and/or Mobbing-Mobsters of any of their many kinds and orientations. 2. Have been embedded within any coalition where powers and wealth have been concentrated in "Authoritative" ways. 3. Cannot be traced to open and honest dialogues of diverse people's own personal diverse experiences and description of those diverse experiences. 4. Have been translated into EXCLUSIVE forms of: Injunctions, Demands, Commands, Prescriptions, Proscriptions, Techniques, Technologies, Recipes, Proprieties, etc. 5. Show little, if any, respect for people's own: Desires, Felt-Needs, Special-Talents, Instincts, Visions, Dreams, etc. 6. Are embedded within a conceptual framework which includes in predominant ways: Evil-People, Good-People; Evil-Spirits, Good-Spirits; Evil-Gods, Good-Gods; Evil-Images, Good-Images; Evil-Ideas, Good-Ideas - - - and many other polarizations. 7. Treat Individual-People-In-Isolation - as of greater importance and relevance - - - than Inter-Personal-Relationships. 8. Fail-to-Seek-TO-Help people to focus upon Mitigating-Their-Own-Alienative-Conflicts - - - within Shalom's Sanctuaries. 9. Fail-to-Facilitate Objective-and-Reflexive Systems-Analyses of the Essential-Foundations for Sustainable-Civilizations. 10. Fail-to-Explicitly-Address the relevance of how Astronomically-Tiny-and-Essentially-Isolated God's Spherical Space- Ship-Earth is - - - in its continuing journey with the SUN and WHOLE-SOLAR-SYSTEM - - - through the unimaginably VAST, COLD and Dangerous Cosmic-Voids pervaded by Near-Speed-Of-Light Sub-Atomic-Bullets which can easily penetrate the thin walls of Space-Ships-from-Earth. Be Graciously-Together in Shalom's-Sanctuaries! Be Graciously-Engaged in Open-and-Honest-Dialogues!