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Domineering-Bullies can be unilaterally successful in achieving their chosen goals - - - 

                    ONLY if they can be SURE that the personally will not be fundamentally-changed during the endeavor.

Their HAZARD is that Becoming-Authentically-Involved in any Healthy-Integrative intimate/sexual relationship is likely
to lead to fundamental changes in the personal participants.  For this reason - - - within the frameworks of the 
Life-Styles of Domineering-Bullies and their Ideologies/Paradigms - - - it is Absolutely-Taboo to get involved in any
Healthy-Integrative intimate/sexual relationship, for doing so is likely to lead to fundamental changes in the personal participants - - - and to TREASON;  as TREASON is Unilaterally-Defined by Leading Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters.
Such TREASON is bound to be punished by: Excommunications, Shunnings, Banishments, Denigrations and possibly executions.
Gangs of Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters have their ways of Generating-Conformity! among their "honorable" members!

Domineering-Bullies   In-Self-Defense   must  Be-Totally-Committed   to  Being-Totally-in-Control of all interactions 
between themselves and Threatening-True-Lovers who are   Trying-to-Seduce  Vulnerable-Ones  away from the Life-Style of
Domineering-Bullies.  Beware!  We must  Together-WIN-ALL of our Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception.  If we fail to 
WIN - - - we will be excommunicated, banished, shunned!  Be-Faithful to our Missions as Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-


                                                      IN CONTRAST

True-Lovers seek to AVOID becoming involved in, and/or showing respect for - - - human behaviors which will most probably
generate augmentations of: 

Alienations       Misunderstandings    Confusions   Ignorance   Domination    Isolation   Distributive-Injustice

Segregation-Patterns-Rank-Orderings    Violence     Distrust    Coercion      Terrors     And-Related-Tragic-Realities


                                                      IN CONTRAST

Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters are frequently  (often intentionally)  involved in and/or show respect for - - -

the kinds of inhumane behaviors that True-Lovers are seeking to avoid-becoming-involved-within and/or complicit with.

Violence      Coercion    Repression          Suppression    Depression  Demands     Commands         Unilateral-Actions
Terrors       Ignorance   Confusion           Greed          Hoarding    Shunning    Excommunication  Banishments

Exclusivity   Arrogance  Self-Righteousness  Insensitivity  Genocide    Destruction Devastation      Wars

Addictions    Codependent-Support-Networks of Addicts        Attacks     Threats     Punishments      Blockages

Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception      Military-Industrial-Congressional-Complexes             Isolationism

Building Concentrations-of-Wealth-and-Powers  Preoccupations with Defeating Identified-Enemies        Purification & Purity

Preoccupations with Identified-EVIL-PEOPLE     Preoccupations with Coalitions-of-Good-People           Winning-Conflicts

Augmentations of Alienative-Conflicts         Augmentations of Patterns-of-Alienation                 Identifying-Losers

Denigrations of Weak-True-Lovers' Failures    Denigrations of Shalom and Shalom's Sanctuaries         Identifying-Traitors

Attempting to Control Lovers' Communications  Attempting to Control True-and-Healthy-Intimacies       Mitigating-Risks

Attempting to Control Lovers'  Objective/Reflexive Systems-Analyses of any of these Tragic Realities  Preparing-for-War


                                                      IN CONTRAST

The following are Gracious-Foci of Affirmations-and-Demonstrations made by True-Lovers who seek to Mitigate Their-Own

Alienative-Conflicts, to help build a SUSTAINABLE-CIVILIZATION within God's Astronomically Tiny-and-Isolated Spherical

Space-Ship-Earth with its Finite/Limited Essential-PURE-Material-Resources such as:  Oil, Coal, U-235, Copper, Silver, 

Gold, Rare-Earth-Elements, Water, Air, Carbohydrates, Rich-Soils, etc.

Distributive-Justice       Neighborly-Love  Reconciliations  Hospitality  Generosity    Sharing      Honesty       Humility

Dialogues     Listening    Balance          Mutuality        Empathy      Sympathy      Sensitivity  Integrity     Hope

Authenticity  Meekness     Cooperation      Forgiveness      Apologies    Repentance    Confessions  Integrations  Joy

Integrities   Liberations  Sustainability   Moderation       Accuracy     Descriptions  Coherence    Robustness    Patience

Tolerance     Flexibility  Non-Violence     Gentleness       Descriptions Parables      Stories      Music         Poetry


In the above, the focus is NOT upon what people - - - SHOULD, or SHOULD-NOT:

Do, Say, Affirm, Demonstrate, Avoid or Communicate - - - regarding  "POSITIONS-TAKEN"   IN REGARDS TO Alienative-Conflicts.

The focus IS-NOT upon "POSITIONS" in regards to:   Issues, Conflicts, Priorities, Promises, Covenants, Persons, Evil, etc.

The focus IS-UPON Mitigating-Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts and their Consequent-Patterns-of-Alienation.

                           Be-Graciously-Together   within   Shalom's-Gracious-Ways!

                          Within Healthy-Integrative-Honest-Cooperative-Relationships