KEYS ****

                True-Lovers    Graciously-Coordinate          Their      Respective:

                Desires        Hopes         Expectations     Plans      Intentions    
 
                Techniques     Technologies  Ideals           Values     Principles

 1. To Mitigate-Their-Own-Alienative-Conflicts and Mitigate-the-Long-Term-Costs-of-them.

 2. To be Able-to-Fulfill Sustainable-Life-Styles in the Gracious-Ways-of-Shalom.

 3. To be Able-to-Become Well-Integrated-in-Shalom's Gracious-Ways in God's Space-Ship-Earth.

 4. To Be-Engaged within Healthy-Intimate-Relationships with their neighbors in Space-Ship-Earth.

 5. To Avoid-Seductions into Trying-to-WIN Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception => Out-of-Touch!

 6. To Avoid-Seductions into Addictive-Codependent-Relationships of Mutual-Entrapment-Imprisonment!

 7. To Avoid-Affirming the "Redemptive" powers of the following kinds of Reflexive-Realities:

    Violence      Coercion      Demands       Repressions     Suppressions     Depressions

    Prisons       Shunnings     Exclusivity   Excommunications  Rejections     Arrogance

    Self-Righteousness          Distributive-Injustice         Technologies   Techniques

    Dishonesty    Pretentions   Power-concentrations            Wealth-Concentrations   

 8. To Avoid-Taking-Premature-Risks that they are not mature and well-informed enough to evaluate

    reliably in terms of accurate: Information, Reasoning,  Probabilities and Understood-Reflexive-

    Realities with which they are familiar through existential experiences of their own - - - free

    of Domineering-Bullies' and Mobbing-Mobsters' - - - Violence, Coercion, Demands, Repressions, etc.

 9. To Avoid-Futile-Contentious-Debates with Domineering-Bullies who Cannot-Understand the:  Moods,

    Spirits and Purposes of True-Lovers who are Collaborating-With-Each-Other to Mitigate-Their-Own

    Alienative-Conflicts and Patterns-of-Alienations.

10. In CONTRAST:  Domineering-Bullies within their Patterns-of-Alienation-from-Each-Other and Distrust - - -

    ARE-CERTAIN that they DO-UNDERSTAND-HOW:  Stupid     Ignorant     Misguided    Foolish    Impotent

    true lovers are - - - and so the DOMINEERING-BULLIES ARE ABLE TO DEMOLISH the false-images they have

    projected upon the dark clouds in their own skies of gloom - - - to show the impotence of all true

    lovers whom they have never been intimately close to in any open-and-honest-dialogues.


                           Be-Graciously-Together  within   Shalom's-Gracious-Ways!