KEYS **** True-Lovers Graciously-Coordinate Their Respective: Desires Hopes Expectations Plans Intentions Techniques Technologies Ideals Values Principles 1. To Mitigate-Their-Own-Alienative-Conflicts and Mitigate-the-Long-Term-Costs-of-them. 2. To be Able-to-Fulfill Sustainable-Life-Styles in the Gracious-Ways-of-Shalom. 3. To be Able-to-Become Well-Integrated-in-Shalom's Gracious-Ways in God's Space-Ship-Earth. 4. To Be-Engaged within Healthy-Intimate-Relationships with their neighbors in Space-Ship-Earth. 5. To Avoid-Seductions into Trying-to-WIN Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception => Out-of-Touch! 6. To Avoid-Seductions into Addictive-Codependent-Relationships of Mutual-Entrapment-Imprisonment! 7. To Avoid-Affirming the "Redemptive" powers of the following kinds of Reflexive-Realities: Violence Coercion Demands Repressions Suppressions Depressions Prisons Shunnings Exclusivity Excommunications Rejections Arrogance Self-Righteousness Distributive-Injustice Technologies Techniques Dishonesty Pretentions Power-concentrations Wealth-Concentrations 8. To Avoid-Taking-Premature-Risks that they are not mature and well-informed enough to evaluate reliably in terms of accurate: Information, Reasoning, Probabilities and Understood-Reflexive- Realities with which they are familiar through existential experiences of their own - - - free of Domineering-Bullies' and Mobbing-Mobsters' - - - Violence, Coercion, Demands, Repressions, etc. 9. To Avoid-Futile-Contentious-Debates with Domineering-Bullies who Cannot-Understand the: Moods, Spirits and Purposes of True-Lovers who are Collaborating-With-Each-Other to Mitigate-Their-Own Alienative-Conflicts and Patterns-of-Alienations. 10. In CONTRAST: Domineering-Bullies within their Patterns-of-Alienation-from-Each-Other and Distrust - - - ARE-CERTAIN that they DO-UNDERSTAND-HOW: Stupid Ignorant Misguided Foolish Impotent true lovers are - - - and so the DOMINEERING-BULLIES ARE ABLE TO DEMOLISH the false-images they have projected upon the dark clouds in their own skies of gloom - - - to show the impotence of all true lovers whom they have never been intimately close to in any open-and-honest-dialogues. Be-Graciously-Together within Shalom's-Gracious-Ways!