KEYS **** Domineering-Bullies are not qualified to help vulnerable-people to balance-the-risks of Becoming-Alienated due to Alienative-Conflicts - - - and due to Dominant-Efforts to "Protect-Them" against the risks of some non-conventional intimate-personal-relationships. Domineering-Bullies are not qualified - - - because they are: Ignorant-About, Confused-About, and Avoiding- Personal-Participant-Within: Intimate-Personal-Relationships which are TABOO to them as Faithful-Domineering- Bullies who must: 1. Always be invulnerable in defending themselves and others of their: Life-Styles, Ideals, Values, Principles, Grounds-for-Hope and Pretentions-of-Invulnerability. 2. Play-to-Win their particular Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception about the meaning and significance of what they have done and will do/accomplish. 3. Be conformed to their coalition's prescriptions and proscriptions about appearances, desires, actions, etc. 4. Not associated with people whose appearances, desires, actions, etc. - - - are "questionable", "doubtful", etc. 5. Not be vulnerable in any truly intimate-personal and/or sexual-relationships. 6. Not be vulnerable in any truly cooperative/collaborative personal-relationships. 7. Not be involved in any truly open-and-honest dialogues within any truly-hospitable sanctuary for True-Lovers. 8. Not be involved in any open-and-honest-dialogue with: "strangers", "different-people", and/or "non-conformists". 9. Show enthusiasm for supporting the "Right" side in the most important Alienative-Conflicts. 10. Not show any doubts about the Life-Styles for the Most-Dominant-Leaders in their own Coalition-of-Winners.