KEYS **** There is no doubt that many people have made many mistakes in becoming involved in: imprudent, unwise and unhealthy intimate/sexual relationships - - - with people who they were not sure that they could trust in informed and well thought through ways. What is too rarely make clear in public ways - - - is what are some of the helpful procedural guidelines to trust in Mitigating-Alienative-Conflicts over becoming involved in intimate and/or sexual relations. 1. It is not safe to trust Domineering Bullies to offer guidance; no-matter how powerful, wealthy, respected, honored or trusted the Domineering-Bullies are in traditional ways. 2. It is not safe to trust Exclusively-Objective: People, Scientists, Scholars, Technocrats; no matter - - - -. 3. It is not safe to trust people who are specializing in the Concentration of Wealth and Power; no matter - - - -. 4. It is not safe to trust Technocratic: Prescriptions, Proscriptions, Taboos, Threats, Repressions or Just-Say-No. 5. It is not safe to trust people who fail to encourage and facilitate Open-and-Honest-Dialogues about authentic intimate and sexual relationships. 6. It is not safe to trust people who are: arrogant, self-righteous, domineering, judgemental, moody, grumpy, greedy, pretentious, egocentric, perfectionists, purists, fear-driven, fear-guided, etc. 7. It is not safe to totally trust total strangers. 8. It is not safe to totally trust "experts" who are total strangers. 9. It is not safe to totally trust people who in effect tell you not to think and not be intuitive. 10. It is not safe to trust people who tell you to totally trust any rigid and fixed set of old rules.