KEYS **** The following can be helpful guidelines for people seeking to Mitigate their Own Alienative-Conflicts - - - while trying to avoid the dangers-and-risks that can be present in such efforts: 1. Initially Make-Affirmations of the Most-Unambiguous Reconciling-Virtues - - - through Coherent- Articulations-and-Demonstrations of Clusters-of-Relevant: Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues, etc. 2. Later Focus-Upon Ambiguous Reconciling-Virtues relevant to Ambiguous-Virtues within More-Complex Clusters of Overall-Gracious-Clusters that Facilitate-Long-Term-Sustainable Life-Styles. 3. Mitigate the giving of attention to Alienative: Ideals, Values, Defenses and Unilateral-Activities - - - Eventually Letting-GO of them as may be appropriate upon careful consideration of them. 4. Openly-Demonstrate and Explain why you are Eventually Letting-Go of Alienative: Ideals, Values, Deafens and Unilateral-Actions - - - in Graciously-Available Teachable-Moments. 5. Initially focus upon the Less-Threatening-Activities involved in Mitigating-Alienative-Conflicts, and only later focus upon the More-Threatening-Activities involved in Mitigating-Alienative-Conflicts. 6. Do not criticize any person primarily because that person has NOT supported your favorite cause "X". That person may appropriately be engagING in all available time in causes "A", "B" and "C" there they can make more significant differences - - - than they could in spending their available time on cause "X" there they are not qualified to make any significant difference. 7. Avoid engaging in an/or affirming the following kinds of behaviors which undermine the possibilities of facilitating and encouraging the Mitigation of our Own Alienative-Conflicts; e.g.; Resentment Revenge Revolts Punishments Greed Domination Damnation Shunning Negativity Contentions Negations Coveting Arrogance Pretentions Impatience Intolerance Of course there are many additional kinds of related domineering-behaviors to avoid.