KEYS **** Each miraculous-occasions of people collaborating in Mitigating-Their-Own-Alienative-Conflicts - - - usually includes in Gracious-Integrative-Ways - - - may of the following aspects; but without Guarantees! 1. An Evolving-Consensus that the Alienative-Conflicts are NOT-Mutually-Advantageous for Most-of-the- People who are involved in one-way-or-another-way: a. As initiators and/or victims, b. As perpetuators and/or victims, c. As objective/reflexive Systems-Analysts, d. As Unilateral Profiteers/Losers, e. As Players trying to WIN-Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception, f. As Presumed Winners of Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception, g. As Military-Industrial-Congressional-Complexes in Profitable-Adventures, h. As For-Profit-Only Great-Corporations and/or as Coalitions of them, i. As Dominant Males and/or Females, j. As Dominant Addicts and/or Codependent-Supporters-of-Addicts, k. As Victims in any kind of Sexual-Relationships, l. As Victims in any kind of Addict/Codependent Relationships, m. "Getting-to-Yes" and/or "Getting-Past-No" by Fisher and/or Ury, n. "Getting-Together" by Fisher and/or Ury, o. Getting-Apart in Alienative-Conflicts-Together, p. Getting-Alienation through Alienative-Conflicts-of-Distrust, q. Creating Chaos-Garbage-Pollution Together/Apart, r. Creating Armageddon through Cooperative-Alienative-Conflicts Together/Apart, s. As Criminals and/or Self-Righteous Good and/or Evil People in Alienative-Conflicts-Together, t. As Professional Labelers of Good and/or Evil Individual-Persons in Alienative-Conflicts, u. As Concentrators of Power and/or Wealth and/or Influence-Peddlers Doing Business with Venal Dealers, v. As Alienators/Estranged Individual-People who have been officially labeled as "Good-People". 2. An Evolving Consensus/Vision of How Participants/Victims can collaborate in Integrative-Explorations of Evolving Levels/Realms of Reflexive-Intimate-Persona-Relationships - - - which include: a. Mutually-Creative/Maintained Sanctuaries for all people who work to facilitate SAFE Open-and-Honest-Dialogues Therein. b. Mutually-Enjoyed Balanced-Intimacies with Committments to Facilitate: Reconciliations, Hospitality, Generosity, Open-and-Honest-Dialogues and Explorations of New/Healthy Living-Together in Long-Term-SUSTAINABLE-WAYS - - - Within-God's Astronomically-Tiny-Isolated Space-Ship-Earth. c. Honesty about Exponential-Growth-Patterns of Human-Activity within God's Astronomically-Tiny-and-Isolated Space-Ship-Earth --- with Finite-Resources. d. Honesty about the Growth-of-ENTROPY/CHAOS within each Isolated-Volume-of-Space - - - to the extent that it Totally-Isolated and Energy-is-being-Transformed and/or Moved-around within the Totally-Isolated-Volume-of-Space. e. Honesty about the Futility-of-Labeling Isolated-Persons/Groups as "GOOD" OR "EVIL" persons-in-isolation - - - apart-from Healthy-Intimate-Reflexive-Relationships. It is more helpful to focus attention upon the natures of Personal-Relationships; and to work on Mitigating-Alieantive-Conflicts within Un-Healthy-Persoan-Relationships.