Keys **** What Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues, Criteria, etc. - - - are Most-Likely to Help-US to Move-Toward-the-Gracious Facilitation of-the-Mitigation of Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts - - - In-the-Long-Term in SUSTAINABLE-WAYS. Consider the following possible-options - - - which may not have been Well-Tried very-many-times in the-unbiased-ways-of LOVE - - - within True-Sanctuaries wherein ALL persons are Truly-Free to be Safely-Vulnerable - - - about ALL-of-their-True: Needs, Vulnerabilities, Disabilities, Injuries, Dis-Eases, Errors, Mistakes, Stumbles, Terrors, Illnesses, etc. 1. Open-and-Honest-Dialogues in Smaller-Groups are more likely to Survive; than in Larger-Groups. 2. Focusing upon Small Coherent Clusters of SUSTAINABLE: Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues; not isolated risky ones. 3. Focusing upon clarifying and confirming the articulations of our CORE: Attitudes, assumptions Presuppositions, and Ultimate-Concerns - - - will be more likely to survive in SUSTAINABLE-WAYS - - - than focusing upon winning any of the following: a. Particular Legislative-Battles in the context of Alienative-Conflicts. b. A 51% to 60% Coalition-Base in an enduring Alienative-Conflict. c. One of many Mutually-Exclusive POSITIONS in an Alienative-Conflict. d. Superiority in Dominating-Others through: Negations, Denigrations, Alienations, Name-Calling, Emoting, Labeling people as GOOD/EVIL, Maintaining-Exclusive-Clubs, etc. e. Contests over Misleading-Characterizations of our contestants and/or enemies their: intentions, motivations, proposals, assumptions, attitudes, presuppositions, needs and ultimate concerns. f. Concentrations of Wealth, Power and Influence - - - to become Dominant-Leaders-in-OUR-Communities. g. Superiority in: Posturing, Positioning, Purity, Certainty, Power, Wealth, Prestige, Honors, Successes, Investments, Controls, etc. h. WINNING Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception regarding anything which stands in our way of getting what we want. i. Put-Downs and Excommunications of vulnerable-people who are: poor, sick, homeless, migrants, immigrants, and/or VICTIMS of wars/terrorists/bullies/mobbing-mobsters of any kind. 4. Focusing upon ADMIRABLE and GRACIOUSLY-SUSTAINABLE Life-Styles; and upon the ideals, values, principles, and virtues that are affirmed therein - - - will be more likely to be graciously helpful in Mitigating-Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts; RATHER-THAN Focusing-Much- Attention-Upon: a. Individual "special" persons of any kind. b. Isolated Vulnerable-Persons and/or Groups of Persons. c. Isolated Superior-Persons and/or Groups of Persons. d. Particular Complex Legislative Proposals and Suggestions. e. Who is: Guilty, To-Be-Blamed, To-Be-Shamed, To-Be-Punished, etc. f. Gossip and Hear-Say "Evidence" about any person(s) and/or behavior(s). g. The uninformed/thoughtless "views" and "opinions" of any kinds of people "under-pressure". h. Canned responses to leading/coercive questions framed by domineering "reporters"/"interviewers". i. Successful Domineering-Bullies and/or Mobbing-Mobsters. 5. Focusing upon Gracious-Official-Uses of Power-and-Influence by Elected Governmental-Officials, Corporate-Executives, Legislators, Religious-Leaders and Administrators - - - will-be-more long- term-sustainable than ALIENATIVELY-FOCUSING upon the details of their private lives and gossip - - - just recently "revealed".