Humans are different from each other in many unexpected ways - - - which may play 
roles in human: mis-under-standings, confusions, contentions, conflicts, etc.

 1. How people have internalized, articulated, combined, explained, mixed-up, etc.
    - - - Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues, etc. 

 2. What mistakes, tragedies, catastrophes, injuries, diseases, misunderstandings,
    hopes, disappointments, etc.  - - - they have experienced and attempted to 
    understand and explain - - - in different ways that may be "in conflict".

 3. The degrees to which they have done the above in ways that are: coherent, authentic,
    honest, well, integrated, etc. - - - or fail to do so.

 4. The degrees to which people have enjoyed being-together in the many Gracious Ways 
    of Shalom - - - in Open-and-Honest-Dialogues about ALL KINDS OF PEOPLE'S most-basic-
    and-healthy-true: needs, desires, pleasures, wants, experiences and communications.

 5. The degrees to which they have learned and understand How-to-Cooperate in Mitigating
    Their-Own-Alienative-Conflicts - - - which flow from the many ways in which they are 
    different from other persons - - - while seeming to be alike in superficial ways; yet
    are amazingly different in ways that many people cannot imagine could exist.

Even the basic differences between Domineering-Bullies and True-Lovers are often not
evident.  They can all be: Committed, Loyal, Sincere, Self-Sacrificial, Tenacious, Hard-
Working - - - even if in different ways.  Domineering Bullies are rarely able, willing or
ready To-Be:

 1. Engaged in Open-and-Honest-Dialogue.
 2. Authentically-Intimate, in Shalom's Integrative-Ways.
 3. Coherently-Sympathetic and Empathetic in Truly-Sensitive-Ways.
 4. Authentic-Sexual-Beings-In-LOVE.
 5. Charitable, Generous and Hospitable.
 6. Balanced and Well-Integrated-Mortals.
 7. Honest about their Actual-Limits-and-Limitations.
 8. Free of Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception.
 9. Honest about God's Astronomically-Tiny-Isolated Space-Ship-Earth.
10. Well-Integrated Members of the Whole-Crew of Space-Ship-Earth - - - Isolated-In-Space.
11. Coherently-Eliciting Trust - - - from Diverse-People of Many-Kinds.
12. Tolerant with Diverse People-in-Love.

True-Lovers are able, willing and ready to be present within the above ways with diverse
other people - - - Affirming in Words-and-Behaviors - - - Many-Coherent-Clusters of integrative: 

Ideals, Values, Principles and Virtues - - - which sustain both Communal-and-Personal forms of 
Integration-Processes and Present-Integrities - - -
In Shalom's Reconciling-Ways-of-LOVE - - - 

Mitigating-the-Losses due to:  Alienative-Conflicts, Alienations, Confusions, Biases,
Ignorance, Prejudices, Segregations, Entropy and Resource-Consumptions Growing in
Exponential-Ways that are UNSUSTAINABLE within God's Astronomically-Tiny-and-Isolated
Space-Ship-Earth.