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This is http://www.essayz.com/b0807160.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== Click on WELCOME for a quick tour of essayz.com ========================================================== %MAJOR DIFFERENCES TRUE LOVERS PERSONAL RELATIONS 080716 %DOMINEERING BULLIES DYSFUNCTIONAL RELATIONSHIPS 080716 %VIOLENCE GRACIOUS OPEN HONEST DIALOGUES INTIMACIES 080716 %CONFLICT MITIGATION RECONCILIATION FORGIVE GRACE 080716 %SHARING WEALTH POWER HOSPITALITY HEALING HOSPITALS 080716 %COMMUNAL HEALTH CARE INTEGRITY INTEGRITIES EMPATHY 080716 The major differences between True-Lovers' Personal- Relationships --- and Domineering-Bullies' Personal- Relationships; pertain to the roles of the following realities within their Personal-Relationships: Control vs Cooperation in Risk/Benefit Management. Sharing vs Concentrations in regard to Power and Wealth. Superiority vs Inferiority in regard to Being-Who-They-Are Submission vs Domination in Being-Who-They-Are-Becoming. Avoiding vs Cooperating in Risk-Management of Intimacies. Avoiding vs Cooperating in Risk-Management of Creativity. Destinations vs Being-Together in Creative-Relationships. Managing Excommunications-and-Alienations/Reconciliations. Managing Exclusivity vs Inclusivity in Relationships. Perfection-and-Purity in regards to Values-and-Ideals. How they RESPOND to Mistakes, Blunders and Tragedies. What they LEARN-FROM Mistakes, Blunders and Tragedies. What they REMEMBER of Mistakes, Blunders and Tragedies. Alienation and Anger; and where they lead/motivate. Prescriptions, Proscriptions, Taboos, Excommunications. Controls of Money, Violence, Kindness, Reconciliations. Identifying Who is Evil and/or Who is Good. Rank-Ordering people within Hierarchies. A major difference between True-Lovers and Domineering- Bullies is how much emphasis they place upon Individuals In-Isolation; compared to Healthy-Personal-Relations recognized in terms of what Clusters-of-Virtues they honor in Words-and-Deeds; and what Clusters-of-Vices they work to Mitigate in Gracious-Ways. Healthy-Relationships created Healthy-People; as much as Healthy-People create Healthy-Relationships. Healthy-Relationships need as much honor, respect, and support as do Healthy-People. Our challenge is to cooperate in clarifying how to recognize, honor and respect both Healthy-Relationships and Healthy-People --- while at the same time clarifying how to recognize, describe, and mitigate the Alienative- Behaviors of Un-Healthy-People and Un-Healthy-Relations; which often involve Domineering-Bullies engaged in Alienative-Conflicts and Contentious-Relationships full of: Negations, Polarizations, Dichotomizations, Demands, Commands, Arrogance, Self-Righteousness, Hubris, etc. Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom. (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================