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This is http://www.essayz.com/b0806080.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== Click on WELCOME for a quick tour of essayz.com ========================================================== %TRUE LOVERS FULLY HEALTHY HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS GOD 080608 %BULLIES PLAY DOMINANT ROLES SIGNIFICANT WAYS PATHS 080608 %BLAME SHAME GUILT PROJECTED AWAY FROM SELF IMAGES 080608 %INHIBIT REPRESS PROHIBIT UNDERMINE CONFUSE TALK 080608 %OPEN PUBLIC DISCUSSION RESPOND CRITIQUE QUESTIONS 080608 Within Fully-Healthy-Human-Relationships there are Few-or- No-Persons who Play-Dominant-Roles --- which in significant ways Exclude-True-Lovers from Playing- Significant-Roles in the evolving courses of the Healthy- Human-Relationships. Human-Relationships are Healthy-Relationships --- ONLY to the extent that within them the following kinds of behaviors DO-NOT-Play Significant-Roles in the evolution of the Human-Relationships: 1. The Projection-and/or-Assignment of blame, shame, guilt, etc. --- by-domineering-people upon-other-people who are Weak-and/or-Submissive in some significant ways. 2. ALIENATIVE-BEHAVIORS which Undermine Open-and-Honest- Dialogue among people who are affected by the Human- Relationships which are being considered. 3. ALIENATIVE-Forms of: COMMUNAL-OR-PERSONAL anger, resentment, revenge, punishment, banishment, excommunications, shunning, avoidance, segregation, isolation, etc. --- USED TO MAINTAIN PERSONAL AND/OR COMMUNAL ISOLATED-ULTIMATELY-IDOLATROUS-STANDARDS/VIRTUES. 4. UNILATERAL-CONTROL of: risks, benefits, costs, vulnerability, reputations, communications, friendships, dialogue, intimacies, planning, initiatives, responses, emotions, assumptions, attitudes, fears, anxieties, etc. (NOTE: UNILATERAL-CONTROL entails COMMUNAL- APPROVAL/TOLERATION of COMMUNAL-INDIFFERENCES to CONSEQUENT-ALIENATION of MINORITY-PERSONS. Such COMMUNAL APPROVAL/TOLERATION is idolatrous; in violation of the two greatest commandments to love God and Neighbors.) The above comments pertain to all the diverse aspects of Human-Relationships: tribal, linguistic, economic, objective, subjective, reflexive, religious, technical, spiritual, affective, sexual, political, professional, etc. Of course it will not be helpful to try to repress/suppress open and honest dialogue about the above comments. To the extent that it is helpful to characterize humans in terms of a spectrum from True-Lovers at one extreme and Domineering-Bullies at the other extreme -- we need to ask the following kinds of questions: Which kinds of people in the above just-mentioned-spectrum can we reasonably expect to be ready, willing, able, and LIKELY TO AUGMENT: 0. The formation of Healthy-Human-Relationships? 1. The Projection-and/or-Assignment of blame, shame, guilt, etc. --- by-domineering-people upon-other-people who are Weak-and/or-Submissive in some significant ways. 2. Alienative-Behaviors which Undermine Open-and-Honest- Dialogue among people who are affected by the Human- Relationships which are being considered. 3. Alienative-Forms of: anger, resentment, revenge, punishment, banishment, excommunications, shunning, avoidance, segregation, isolation, etc. 4. UNILATERAL-CONTROL of: risks, benefits, costs, vulnerability, reputations, communications, friendships, dialogue, intimacies, planning, initiatives, responses, emotions, assumptions, attitudes, fears, anxieties, etc. (NOTE: UNILATERAL-CONTROL entails COMMUNAL- APPROVAL/TOLERATION of COMMUNAL-INDIFFERENCES to CONSEQUENT-ALIENATIONS of MINORITY-PERSONS. Such COMMUNAL- APPROVAL/TOLERATION is idolatrous; in violation of the two greatest commandments to love God and Neighbors.) In the above regards --- see chapter ten "Forgiveness at Nickel Mines" in the book by: Kraybill, Nolt and Weaver- Zercher --- entitled "Amish Grace, How Forgiveness Transcended Tragedy" Wiley (c) 2007. It describes the justifications of the communal practices of SHUNNING of religious deviants within CERTAIN religious-communities. Upon what complementary other kinds of spectrums of human traits can we helpfully focus attention in seeking to identify people who will be ready, willing, able, and likely to mitigate Unhealthy-Human-Relationships --- by MITIGATING the JUST-ABOVE four groups of Alienative- Behaviors numbered one through four. How can we untie the Gordian-Reflexive-Knots pointed to above --- and reach the receding sweet fruits of Security=Invulnerability via Imposed-Communal- Integrity=Conformity? How can we, as idealistic-technocratic-fools, achieve the elimination of tragic-simplistic-idealism? What do the Greek Tragic-Plays-Teach? Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom. (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================