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This is http://www.essayz.com/b0801091.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== Click on WELCOME for a quick tour of essayz.com ========================================================== %SEDUCTION INTO DOMINEERING PEOPLE CONTENTIOUS EVIL 080109 %DYSFUNCTIONAL RELATIONSHIPS ALIENATION VIOLATIONS 080109 %PERSONAL AND COMMUNAL INTEGRATIONS INTEGRITIES GOD 080109 %TRUE LOVERS TRULY TOGETHER WITHIN SHALOM MANY WAYS 080109 %AUTHENTIC CONFLICT RESOLUTION ROOTS ARROGANCE SIN 080109 %HOSPITALITY GENEROSITY BUILD SANCTUARIES HOSPITALS 080109 We are trapped in Tragic-Dilemmas if we are Preoccupied with How-Others-Will-Respond to What-We-Say-And-Do in terms of Real-and-Perceived: battles, conflicts, contests, & contentious-relationships between/among alienated people; rather than in terms of the: authenticity, integrity, coherence, robustness, accuracy, reliability, openness, honesty, transparency, justness, fairness, etc. of What-We-Say-And-Do. When we are trapped in the above Tragic-Dilemmas -- we are TRAGICALLY-CONTROLLED by the ALIENATIVE Acts of other people who are: 1. Alienated. 2. Domineering. 3. Contentious-Negaters of Authentic-Affirmations. 4. Affirming the various Myths-of-Redemptive-Violence. 5. Arrogant and/or Self-Righteous. 6. Pretentious about their Powers. 7. Not learning from the costs of their past mistakes. 8. Unwilling to acknowledge their past mistakes. 9. Playing Collusive Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception. 10. Addicted to other people's profitable "solutions". 11. Showing reverence for very few isolated idols/IDEALS. 12. Showing reverence for very few isolated idols/VALUES. 13. Unable to acknowledge the truths within paradoxes. 14. Preoccupied with Coalitions of Concentrated-POWERS. 15. Preoccupied with Coalitions of Concentrated-WEALTH. 16. Indifferent to the Corruption entailed in the above. 17. Indifferent to instances of Distributive-Injustice. 18. Not sympathetic-empathetic with Venerable-People. To avoid such entrapment. we need to focus upon how --- what we have done and are doing --- merits respect because of our long-term: authenticity, integrity, coherence, robustness, accuracy, reliability, openness, honesty, transparency, justness, fairness, etc. To-Avoid-Such-Entrapment --- we need to Stay-On-Message, and Decline-to-Take-for-Granted what others Seek-to- Entrap-Us Into-Taking-For-Granted --- in Ways-Which-Are- Inconsistent With-Our-Own-Long-Term: authenticity, integrity, coherence, robustness, accuracy, reliability, openness, honesty, transparency, justness, fairness, etc. To-Avoid-Such-Entrapment --- we can Clarify-the- Differences Between-Our-Long-Term: authenticity, integrity, coherence, robustness, accuracy, reliability, openness, honesty, transparency, justness, fairness, etc. --- and the: battles, conflicts, contests, and contentious relationships between/among Alienated-People who Seek- to-Seduce-US into their Alienative-Ways-of-Dealing With-Each-Other. We-CANNOT-Avoid-Such-Entrapment --- While-Alienated from those who Are-Entrapped --- By-We-Ourselves: 1. Being-Engaged in Conflicts-With-Them. 2. Pretending-to-Be-Superior-In Alienation-From-Them. 3. Trying-to-Control Alienative-Behaviors-Ourselves. 4. Attempting to Rescue/Save Them-Unilaterally. 5. Attempting to Avoid-Contamination via Distance. 6. Viewing them as Inherently-Evil-People in Alienation. 7. Viewing ourselves as Inherently-Good-People Alone. 8. Engaging in Superior-Kinds-of-Alienative-Behaviors. Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom. (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================