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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DIFFICULT CHALLENGING OPEN HONEST DIALOGUES SEX 070930 %INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRITY 070930 %MODALITY ETHICS CONTROLS PROPRIETIES PRESCRIPTIONS 070930 %DESCRIPTION PORNOGRAPHY RAPE DOMINATION CONTROLLER 070930 %DOMINATION UNHEALTHY ALIENATIVE VIOLENCE VIOLATION 070930 %POSSESSION SALE SLAVES ABUSES PROFITS AUTHENTICITY 070930 Open, honest, informed and candid discussions of human's Differing-Sexual: possibilities, desires, needs, hopes, expectations, and fears --- are troubling for many Differing-People for various reasons. 1. Domineering people Fear-the-Vulnerability which is present in Healthy-And-Honest Sexual-Intimacies and Otherwise-Intimate-Relationships. 2. Immature and provincial people fear that their: ignorance, biases, assumptions and prejudices Will-Be- Exposed --- and they will thereby be made vulnerable because of their Areas-of-Weakness. 3. Technocrats, legalists, perfectionists, judgmental- ists and greedy-people fear intimate relationships which cannot be well-Controlled-By-Them in Their-Own-Special- Ways --- While-Maintaining-Personal- And-Communal- Integrity. 4. Rich-and-Powerful people fear talking about situations in which their advantages of Wealth-and-Power are relatively Insignificant-and-Meaningless. 5. Colluders who are playing Collusive-Games-of-Mutual- Self-Deception fear talking about topics which impinge on being honest about the Beginnings-And-Endings of human lives --- about human mortality --- About-Which they tend to Be-in-Denial. 6. Perfectionists fear to deal with Intimate-Reflexive- Relationships which can neither be Perfected-Nor-Purified- Unilaterally --- while maintaining Personal-And-Communal Integrations-And-Integrities. 7. Social-Climbers fear to be open and honest about their Kinds-of-Preoccupations within contexts wherein their Preoccupations-with-Domination --- are likely to be exposed to the light of day. Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom. (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================