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This is http://www.essayz.com/b0702231.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %ACKNOWLEDGE BEING LOVED RISKS BEFORE INFORMED WELL 070223 %ABOUT FALSE SEDUCTION ALIENATIVE ADDICTIVE DEVOID 070223 %CODEPENDENT EVIL RELATIONSHIPS TRUE LOVERS AGAPE 070223 %MUTUAL AGAPE SEXUALITY RESPONSIVE RESPONSIBLE GOOD 070223 %ABSENCE EMPATHY SYMPATHY SHARING GIVING RECEIVING 070223 %RISK MANAGEMENT CONTROL DOMINATION SYSTEM BENEFITS 070223 There are usually risks in acknowledging-being-loved; but there are additional risks in acknowledging-being- loved; before being well informed about the risks in being FALSELY-SEDUCED --- into an alienative-addictive- codependent-relationship which is DEVOID of: True-Love, True-Agape and The-Possibilities-Of True-Sexuality which is fully: open, honest, mutual and responsive. In the absence of Truly: Open-and-Honest-Dialogue, Mutuality, Humility, Empathy, Sympathy, Sharing, Giving, Receiving, Generosity, Appreciation, Thankfulness, Hospitality --- Intimacy can be especially risky; especially when intimacy involves frequent hints of becoming sexually intimate. On the other hand, it is also risky not to acknowledge-being-loved --- in order to avoid all kinds of risks; including avoiding the risks of being-loved imperfectly. It is risky to yearn for and work for Invulnerability Anticipated-as-Security; for there is No-Security in Risk- Free Pseudo-Invulnerability; because it is not truly-real. It is not terribly-risky to acknowledge-being-loved when well informed and honest about the risks of being Falsely-Seduced --- into an Alienative-Addictive- Codependent-Relationship which is Devoid of: True-Love, True-Agape and The-Possibilities-Of True-Sexuality which is fully: open, honest, mutual and responsive. ====================================================== True-Lovers make no effort to compete to get ahead within the box of The-Domination-System-Paradigm. True-Lovers are working graciously outside of the box of The-Domination-System-Paradigm. True-Lovers are working to transcend the: Attitudes, Assumptions, Desires, Expectations, Demands, Controls, etc. which are characteristic of the Loyal-Supporters and Competitors within the box of The-Domination-System- Paradigm. True-Lovers make no sense to those who work to get ahead within the box of The-Domination-System-Paradigm. True-Lovers look Totally-Incompetent and Simplistic; if not Threateningly-Insane and Out-of-Touch-With-Reality, to those who look out from within the box of The- Domination-System-Paradigm. When the views of True-Lovers become Truly-Pervasive in the Many-Gracious-Ways-of-Shalom --- it will be clear that those who looked out with disdain at True-Lovers were in fact trapped within the Alienative-Paradigm of the Boxed-in-Domination-System-Paradigm --- and could not transcend its Boxed-In-Provincial-View of the Whole-Cosmos of the Creative-Love which led the Whole-Cosmos through Integrative-Steps into many forms of Integrities which are Mutually-Compatible within the Many Gracious-Ways-of- Shalom Within-Authentic-Love as The-Creative-Spirit. Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom. (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================