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This is http://www.essayz.com/b0701221.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %JACK AND JILL FALLING INTO TRUE LOVERS TRAPS SEX 070122 %SAFE VULNERABILITY FOOLS RISK INTIMACY BOTTOM LINE 070122 %SEDUCTION UNCONTROLLED EVIL RELATIONSHIPS CONFORM 070122 %PREPLANNED FELLOWSHIP DIALOGUE SYMPATHY EMPATHY ID 070122 %SECURE INVULNERABILITY ABSOLUTE TRUTH INDEPENDENCE 070122 %SUPERIOR ISOLATION EXCOMMUNICATION ALIENATION SURE 070122 Jack and Jill have different perspectives. Jack wants a utilitarian relationship with Jill in which Jill accepts him as Jack is now, and helps Jack get his needs met --- while not threatening Jack's view of himself. Jill wants to grow within an intimate relationship with Jack --- within which they get to know each other intimately through open and honest dialogue wherein they both grow together. Jack wants to be secure in who he is now; and how his current needs, visions, hopes and aspirations can most fully be met according to his current plans. Jill wants to grow together with Jack in ways which are mutually fulfilling in balanced ways --- ways which cannot now be fully anticipated or planned. Jack wants to avoid his current being who he is --- being threatened by any expectation of growth which has not been planned by him, and cannot now be planned by him. Jill wants and expects to grow beyond who she is now --- by being meaningfully involved in many non-exclusive intimate relationships with others who want and expect to grow in the healthy ways of Shalom --- which transcend independent individuals --- acting as independent individuals --- without sensitive mutual consideration of each other's most basic and healthy needs. Jack fears being seduced into any new kind of relationships within which he would be vulnerable in ways that he will not be able to control. Jill seeks to be involved in a relationship which is meaningful --- because it entails being Safely-Vulnerable in Mutually-Desired-Intimacies which are creative in unexpected ways. Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom. (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================