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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DANGEROUS PREMATURE RISKS UNKNOWN FAMILIAR STRANGE 070101 %ADDICTION CODEPENDENT DOMINATION SYSTEM UNBALANCED 070101 %GRADUAL EVOLUTION RELIABLE FRIENDSHIPS SHALOM WAYS 070101 %CONTINUING INTEGRATIONS INTEGRITIES PRUDENT WISDOM 070101 %RELIABLE TENACIOUS DISTRIBUTIVE JUSTICE HOSPITAL 070101 %GRACIOUS GENEROUS HOSPITALITY WELCOME ACCEPTANCE 070101 It is dangerous to take Major-Risks with strangers about whom you have learned very little as regards how: 1. Honest, gentle and humble they are. 2. Hospitable, generous and civil they are. 3. Cooperative, collaborative and mutual they are. 4. Willing their are to listen to you and others. 5. Skilled they are in listening to you and others. 6. Patient they are in the face of adversity. 7. Tenacious they are in the face of difficulties. 8. Committed they are to fulfill promises/covenants. 9. Well integrated they are as whole persons. 10. What their expectations are of themselves & others. We can with Continuing-Integrity take small-risks in getting to know strangers; and the more we learn about them in the above regards --- the safer it will be to gradually move towards new kinds of risks in more intimate relationships. The reason for not taking Major-Risks in any premature time or situation --- is not because of other people's demands, commandments and rules. It is because how Major-Risks may be ahead for us --- depends upon How- Ignorant we may yet be about the above aspects of another person who is not yet Truly-Well-Known by us in our relationships with the person. There are Major-Risks present when there is any Major-Imbalance between/among two or more people considering how Familiar-and-Honest They-and-You are With- Regard-To: 1. Power, Wealth, Influence, Prestige. 2. Intuitions about complex human relationships. 3. Ways people are vulnerable. 4. Ways people are defensive. 5. Ways people are intimate. 6. Sophisticated cultures and world travel. 7. Multiple languages in reading and dialogue. 8. Complex logic and mathematical relationships. 9. Complex music, art, literature and sciences. 10. Sexual relationships and intimations. 11. Philosophy, Spirituality, Religion and Theology. 12. Human possibilities, limitations and ignorance. 13. Being Dominant, Submissive, Assertive, etc. 14. Being open to personal and communal integrations. 15. Being shut to personal and communal integrations. 16. Being willing to take wise/prudent risks in LOVE. Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom. (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================