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This is http://www.essayz.com/b0612141.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %MODE BEING INVOLVED HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS EVIL ID 061214 %KNOWING WHO GOOD SAVED REDEEMED SALVATION RIGHT IT 061214 %RESCUE UNILATERAL HUBRIS CONCENTRATED WEALTH POWER 061214 %DOMINATION SYSTEM MILITARY INDUSTRIAL COMPLEX WARS 061214 %CORPORATIONS PERSONAL RIGHTS POWERS COOPERATIONS 061214 %INTIMATE RISKS SANCTUARY OPEN HONEST DIALOGUE SEX 061214 For people to engage with each other in healthy relationships they need to be in mutually-computable- modes-of-being. The following are some possible modes-of-being: 1. Defensive. 2. Offensive. 3. Attack. 4. Submit. 5. Dominate. 6. Yield. 7. Control. 8. Follow. 9. Demand. 10. Command. 11. Obey. 12. Conform. 13. Rebel. 14. Dominate. 15. Surrender. 16. Acquire. 17. Flight. 18. Fight. 19. Hoard. 20. Cling. 21. Clutch. 22. Hold. 23. Polarize. 24. Bifurcate. 25. Dichotomize. 26. Either-Or. NONE of the above modes are characteristic of people who are well suited to engage with each other in healthy relationships --- because NONE of the above modes demonstrate any commitment to be: balanced, cooperative, collaborators, mutually-together, integrators, coherent, sympathetic, empathetic, in-dialogue, listeners, patient, generous, hospitable, civil, affirmative, transparent, authentic, helpful, etc. Most of the above words can easily be taken to suggest modes of being which are persistently antithetical to being well suited to engage with others in healthy relationships. Some modes of being are only temporarily antithetical to being well suited to engage at the moment with others in new/additional healthy relationships because of existing: committments, involvements, promises, contexts, limitations, circumstances, incompatibilities, etc. on the part of self-and/or-others. Healthy-Relationships can exist only when two or more people are in Modes-of-Being which are MUTUALLY-COMPATIBLE to to being in Healthy-Relationships. Each person may be in a Mode-of-Being --- which prevents them from being involved in any Healthy- Relationship. Many of the 26 words above are suggestive of such inhibiting Modes-of-Being. Each person may be in a Mode-of-Being which permits Healthy-Relationships with other persons --- who are likewise in a Mode-of-Being which permits Healthy- Relationships with other persons; AND who are Compatible with them, by EACH being in a Mode-of-Being which is Compatible with EACH-OTHER. OPENNESS to being in involved in Healthy- Relationships AND MUTUALITY between Modes-of-Being are BOTH-ESSENTIAL. Some people are NOT-OPEN to being involved in any Healthy-Relationships --- for some of the 26 reasons suggested above. Other people ARE OPEN to being involved in many Healthy-Relationships --- but only with others who are MUTUALLY-COMPATIBLE. Not all combinations of Modes-of- Being are MUTUALLY-COMPATIBLE even if they constitute being open to being involved in many Health-Relationships. Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom. (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================