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This is http://www.essayz.com/b0606121.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %FACTORS CONTRIBUTE POLARIZATION CONTRAST FACTIONS 060612 %DICHOTOMY EMBARRASS GUILT SHAME DILEMMAS PROBLEMS 060612 %SEXUALITY INTEREST DESIRES HOPES ASPIRATIONS JOIN 060612 %OPEN HONEST DIALOGUE CONVERSATION COMMUNITY GUILT 060612 %SHAME ABUSE ABUSIVE ADDICT CODEPENDENT RAPE FALLEN 060612 %POWERS THAT BEING SUPERIOR INFERIOR DOMINATION GOD 060612 What are some of the factors that may contribute to polarizing communities into contrasting fractions who are: 1. Greatly inhibited by embarrassment, guilt, shame, and related problems with their sexuality; and 2. Greatly-in-the-face-of the above fraction --- in overt expressions of sexual: interests, activities, hopes, aspirations, or manipulative-endeavors for-personal-gain. It is helpful to take note of the following: a. Domineering people attempt to use human sexuality as a tool to facilitate: domination, control, manipulations and related efforts on their part. b. Being honest, intimate and sexually involved entails being vulnerable to others; including to domineering people --- especially when those involved are not well trained in effectively-resisting-non-violently. c. Being involved in integrative activities entails being vulnerable to others, including to domineering people --- especially when you are not well trained in effectively-resisting-non-violently. d. Many aspects-of-human-sexuality are often evident-foci within collusive-games-of-mutual-self- deception; e,g,: birth, aging, death, prostitution, pornography, male-dominance, addictions, codependence, independence, interdependence, dependence, controls, evil- relationships, good-relationships, reconciliations, management, worship, idealism, tragedies, paradoxes, idolatry, dichotomization, polarizations, etc. e. Authorities have often failed to deal helpfully with the risks and occasions of sexual-abuse of vulnerable people by more powerful people: parent-child, teacher- student, counselor-counseled, pastor-parishioner, priest- parishioner, professor-student, employer-employee, addict- codependent, etc. Such relationships often entail ambiguities which cannot be totally eliminated --- while at the same time affirming, facilitating and defending: personal-integrities, communal-integrities, open-and- honest-dialogue, and overall-basic-human rights. Simplistic solutions can often create more dilemmas and tragedies than they avoid/eliminate. All of the above need to be given some consideration in the processes of sorting out what merits our honor, respect, support, and perhaps reference; and what we would be willing to let-go-of in --- order to enjoy healthy- relationships within the Ways-of-Shalom. Just as the exact meanings actually conveyed by words depend upon the contexts within which the words are encountered; so also each of the above realities conveys meanings which depend upon the contexts within which each reality is encountered. The meanings of all realities- that-are-jointly-present, are essentially-inter-dependent. It is alienative to pretend that the meanings of words an/or realities, are not essentially-inter-dependent. No meanings are "absolute" in isolation of our personal experiences of them, within particular contexts and situations. Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom. (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================